SBI YFI

Puja is a 25 year old single woman who has just arrived in a village to start work as a SBI YFI fellow. After a brief round of introductions with a group of villagers they ask her about her caste, why she is not married yet and what will be her personal gain in trying to do anything for the village. Further, they also comment adversely about the nature of people in cities, based on the comic stereotypes that they have seen portrayed in films and television. Put yourself in Puja’s shoes and tell us how you would handle the situation and what answer, if any, would you give to each of the queries? *

First of all i will do proper research on village background, language, people who are living there, i will learn their language from google at least as novice, People tends to trust you first when you speak in their language and i will tell everything honestly my reason not to get married and caste, telling a lie can be harmful in future.
I will listen everyone's point of view and try to understand their thinking, after that i will explain my situation and purpose of coming there,  I will explain my reason to not getting marriage before working, and try to explain my caste and creed doesn't effect my work and to the villagers, I will give the movies example as they are comparing me from virtual citizens like in PANCHAYAT web series, A lead Abhishek came from big city worked in small village etc.  I will show my verified documents of SBI YFI and although they can't trust me as a individual person but they can trust on SBI, the name they well aware of, after all of these if they are not convinced with my words i will ask for some days without asking a favor and say if they can't like my work it will be their choice not to support me.

Tell us about a time when you disagreed with something in a community or culture different from your own. What happened and why?  

=>"Immigrant workers in cities and locked down" : COVID pandemic, poor people and children are rushing for home in tramp, needy people didn't can't get access of it, Government should have done lockdown with proper plan or atleast give them a proper meal or wages for survival, One state government is forcing responsibilties  of worker to other state government. BJP is a good party and it's is working fine but if we can't criticize our government the whats the meaning of democracy , their supporters don't want to listen and their are in huge amount. If they can't help workers how can they supports us in deflation.
=> "CAA/NRC and HINDU" : As I am Hindu, my surroundings want to support me in the favor of CAA or BJP or Modi JI or if i am not supporting him I am anti. Ithink their is a grey shade of every aspects not black or white, People who are against CAA or in Favor both are manipulated equally by their leaders, As i grown in secular school i know both side want peace only and no any religion is like whatsapp forwarding videos people, both are same. My only point was taking CAA is right but not implementing in a good way is wrong.After 370 kashmir issue and Ram Mandir issue its not the right time to do this and it results Delhi riots, both sides of people hates each other because of manipulation.
=> "A SON AND DAUGHTER DIFFERENCE IN SOCIETY" : I have seen in my home and surrounding their is difference in raising them. In this era a  parents and family treat their son and go every extent to fulfill wishes of boy if their son is not eating food, their is difference in education, people behave differently when girl got married in our culture, girl don't have rights to do rituals of her own native home,daughters don't have rights to go cremation ground and they don't have logical reason of that and many things  in which i am strongly oppose or don't like.
=> People strongly believes that doing marriage of their child in same caste and standards worked as for lifetime and i disagree with it and spending lots of money in marriage is not at all good thing.
=>People believes that keeping their child with near to their eyes is not love, it's affection.Free them.

If you were to rate yourself on your ability to deal with stress, on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being very difficult and 10 being very easy), how would you rate yourself?

a. Can you tell us about a time when you had to overcome significant odds to achieve something for yourself or for others, and how did you manage it?  

I will give 7.
I convinced my father for my education in my favorite school in childhood,their is no seat available for 4th class,so i have given fifth class entrance exam and work harder and got selection.
After 12th i gave engineering entrance exam without taking proper coaching of it and somehow i managed to take admission in good college.
In college, all students speaks fluent English and write as well and their is computer science stream they have studied earlier about computer languages in CBSE or ICSE board and I was from state board, i started learning java and English , i have promised myself that i will done one system in full java language and at of the end of the college , i have completed 7-8 systems in Java language, and i write good English as well.
In school i was not active in cultural activities like dance singing or sports,In 10th stand One boy told me " You can't dance and will never do"
In college duration there is no any single semester in which i haven't participated in Dance, supports or event management. People use to praise me as good team leader and dancer.
Most important event of my life was that i was fat in school days, my classmates and relatives use to tont and make fun of mine, i felt as a ugly girl. In 11th std. i was so irritated and fed up, i took pathological test and it results thyroid i took homeopathic medicine one day i left the medicine and i use to dance and exercise every day i loose my extra weight in 2012-13 and after that due to thyroid and stress i gained again weight 2015-16 and then i realized and started my loving myself and after tackling my personal issues which causes minor depression in 2017, i love my body and improving myself everyday and do things which makes me happy and mind with or without stress, i try to make my aura positive and cope with every problems by saying if i have a problem there is solution if not why should be stressed.

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